Tuesday, August 09, 2005

I thought she'd be cooler than this...

All along my mom has said that when I go back to school Randall has to move out. Due to the fact that we live in a little town and can see why she is saying this. However, she's not budging at all on this. The entire reason he's not gotten an apartment yet is because we're waiting on a claim from the VA...it's supposed to be done..we're assuming this month, but legally for sure we'll have the money by the end of Sept. Mom knows this and still won't allow him to stay. I've been a complete wreck. I know it isn't, but I feel like all of this is totally my fault. I just kep saying all along that mom'd be cool with things, it'd be ok...but tonight the bomb dropped and the three of us sat down and she totally was like...NOPE. I don't know what to do. He can't go back to KY...school starts for him here in Cincinnati in a couple weeks. I almost forgot to add too that mom was like, "You are more than welcome to be here when Katy is home and you don't have to move all your stuff right away..." Well, duh! If he's in a different apartment am I going to be staying here?! NO!

I've had a hard day as it is about not wanting to go back to Richmond. This really set it over the edge...if I don't go, he doesn't have to go. He's being so strong for me right now even though I know he is just as upset and also thought mom was gonna be cooler about this. So, if you have some extra$$ (HA) or know of a place around here that is el cheapo but still safe to live in and live in the area PLEASE let me know ASAP!

2 comments:

Amber said...

oh katy, i wish i knew of something to do. you poor gal. i understand where your mama is coming from though, no matter how sucky it is. if you and randall are meant to be, this will not effect you 2 at all...be strong gal. everything happens for a reason...remember?

Katy said...

Katy,
I don't really know you, but I saw your name on another blog and thought it was spelt pretty cool... (I'm KATY also, and NO ONE spells it like that ;)
Well, about your boy friend.. I do not know of any place, but I can say that my boy friend and I have been seperated at times, since we were both in the Navy, and now he is in the reserves and leaves the country about once every few months, to help us make more money to get a house... ANYWAY!! I know how hard it is to be away, but I also know it is possible to make it even so!! -even OCEANS apart :O and yes, everything does happen for a reason, I live by that and that helps to get me through a lot...
I hope you feel better and you guys work it out..
:) KATY :)